Making a Promise to Myself

I know that I have had problems really working on my financial journey for the last few months, but the baby will be here soon and I will have to worry about both of our futures. I have to make a change after the baby gets here so we will have a positive financial future. I have decided that I have to make a promise to myself, and keep that promise.

My Promises to Myself:


I know that I can not do much to change my financial future at the moment, but my son will be here within the next 5 weeks. I am only taking a short maternity leave, so I should be back to work full swing within the next 2.5 months if everything works out. I am making these promises to myself so I can make sure that my son and I are financially prepared for our future. It was not as important to me when it was just me, but my son is the most important thing in my life.

Here are my promises to myself

1. Increase my income by going back to school, working more hours, and getting another job if I have to.
2. Keep track of every dollar coming in and out of my home
3. Save money everywhere, and no splurging on things that are not necessary
4. Start a savings account for the baby ASAP (He has to go to college)
5. Always remember that my sons financial future is the most important. Doing all of these things will guarantee that he has a good future.

These are just the large promises that I am making to myself at the moment. After I am able to go back to work I will make more detailed short term promises to myself. I am hoping that making goals, and promising myself that i will go by them will help me seriously help our financial future.

I Have Never Been More Motivated on My Financial Future

It is so funny how becoming pregnant has changed my thought pattern in a lot of ways. Instead of only thinking about me, I have another person to think about. I may even have two other people to think about if it turns out that I am having twins. (I will find out in a few weeks) Now I see why so many moms work there behinds off. I want to be one of those moms that work hard and can provide for there children.

I have never been so focused on making more of an income, and getting all of my finances in order. Everything has been crossing my mind; unpaid maternity leave, possibility of having to take maternity leave early, planning for the future of the baby(babies) and so much more. I am trying to plan for the harder alternatives so I can hopefully be better prepared when  thinks actually work out well. I guess its those motherly instincts that everyone has been telling me about.

School is still in my future. I have to pay $700 to a school that I went to a few years ago so I can get my transcript, and then I will be applying to attend the community college in my area. Planning for this will help my babies future, as well as my own. I just know that the next few years is going to be a struggle, but it is going to be well worth it when it is all said and done. I will be going to school to get my degree in applied science. I am wanting to get into real estate. I have wanted this for years and I am now focused on getting it done.

To prepare for everything I am pushing to earn more online so I will have an income coming in just in case my maternity leave comes early, and because my maternity leave is unpaid. The income will also help with so much more in my life. I have decided to put more of a schedule together, and just have more focus. I know that everything is going to work out, it is just going to take focus and determination from me.